"I only give you a hard time
Cause I can't go on and pretend like
I haven't tried to forget this
But I'm much too full of resentment"
Resentment by Beyonce
Resentment- Indignation or ill will felt as a result of a real or imagined grievance
So I was listening to resentment by beyonce and saw a million females' faces just flash before my eyes. Now that's a word that beats hate...a word I can't stand...So why hold on to that pain? When is it time to let go? Move on for the king or queen that awaits you? I find it FUNNY that we speak of forgiveness but seem to never FORGET? Why? What's the purpose to keep on digging up things that obviously occurred because the relationship was "IMMATURE"? Yes that's a good word to sum it up. We as females expect the world from a man, but ladies, let's be real for one moment in our lives! Can you give back what you receive? And men, why do you tend to treat your queen like a 20%, when she's the 80%? Why do we,(as females) want the big house, the man with the good job, the respect, yet our credit is bad, working a 9 to 5 that we're just not happy with and don't even respect OURSELVES. When did we just SETTLE because man is suppose to provide. Whose rules are those? SOCIETY has set these rules for all to follow. Is this real? The way it should be instead of making it the way you WANT it to be. So when things are not going our way, we pout and fuss, like a child. Cry because he cheated, lied about his whereabouts the night before. Why? And LADIES let's bring up your skeletons! Cause we all know females are bigger liars, and sneaky as s***. You want appreciation: fine, loyalty: understandable, but ask yourself this: if you know of the negative in the relationship why keep going through it? Yes I know COMFORTABILITY.. And when things go wrong we hold onto it, over and over again replaying the same scenario, but get upset the next time history repeats itself. WTF!!! So why complain and say you've been hurt over and over again. When in all you don't want to move on. You don't trust the next, or you just get too attached too fast because you have no clue how to deal. We hold grudges and are always anger, RESENT the next who can possibly be the one chosen for you because you just can't let go!!!! Now I'm one of the pickyest females I have ever come across. I like a certain man and obtain certain qualities that can attribute to who I am. Now knowing what I can and can not bring forth, why not just embrace it for what it is? I know why? We want stability, devotion, admiration. But are you ready for these traits? Can you see yourself just letting go of all the pain, the heartache, the negativity that has brought you to where you are today? If you said YES, then go ahead, live your life. But if no, figure out what needs to be mended in order for you to open up again. Because we all know its hard for us to just get over it, truth be told, its harder for a man to accept letting go. But his emotions will not allow him to not let go. I think we blame others for the choices we make, but you make your bed, when will you begin lying in it and own up to face the fact that only you can be your DOWNFALL.
Cause I can't go on and pretend like
I haven't tried to forget this
But I'm much too full of resentment"
Resentment by Beyonce
Resentment- Indignation or ill will felt as a result of a real or imagined grievance
So I was listening to resentment by beyonce and saw a million females' faces just flash before my eyes. Now that's a word that beats hate...a word I can't stand...So why hold on to that pain? When is it time to let go? Move on for the king or queen that awaits you? I find it FUNNY that we speak of forgiveness but seem to never FORGET? Why? What's the purpose to keep on digging up things that obviously occurred because the relationship was "IMMATURE"? Yes that's a good word to sum it up. We as females expect the world from a man, but ladies, let's be real for one moment in our lives! Can you give back what you receive? And men, why do you tend to treat your queen like a 20%, when she's the 80%? Why do we,(as females) want the big house, the man with the good job, the respect, yet our credit is bad, working a 9 to 5 that we're just not happy with and don't even respect OURSELVES. When did we just SETTLE because man is suppose to provide. Whose rules are those? SOCIETY has set these rules for all to follow. Is this real? The way it should be instead of making it the way you WANT it to be. So when things are not going our way, we pout and fuss, like a child. Cry because he cheated, lied about his whereabouts the night before. Why? And LADIES let's bring up your skeletons! Cause we all know females are bigger liars, and sneaky as s***. You want appreciation: fine, loyalty: understandable, but ask yourself this: if you know of the negative in the relationship why keep going through it? Yes I know COMFORTABILITY.. And when things go wrong we hold onto it, over and over again replaying the same scenario, but get upset the next time history repeats itself. WTF!!! So why complain and say you've been hurt over and over again. When in all you don't want to move on. You don't trust the next, or you just get too attached too fast because you have no clue how to deal. We hold grudges and are always anger, RESENT the next who can possibly be the one chosen for you because you just can't let go!!!! Now I'm one of the pickyest females I have ever come across. I like a certain man and obtain certain qualities that can attribute to who I am. Now knowing what I can and can not bring forth, why not just embrace it for what it is? I know why? We want stability, devotion, admiration. But are you ready for these traits? Can you see yourself just letting go of all the pain, the heartache, the negativity that has brought you to where you are today? If you said YES, then go ahead, live your life. But if no, figure out what needs to be mended in order for you to open up again. Because we all know its hard for us to just get over it, truth be told, its harder for a man to accept letting go. But his emotions will not allow him to not let go. I think we blame others for the choices we make, but you make your bed, when will you begin lying in it and own up to face the fact that only you can be your DOWNFALL.
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